I read a newspaper yesterday and turned out each person will overcome these 3 stages as a natural way.

First, they will learn and remember what parents or closest people around teach them to form a self-protective way.

Second, they get an awareness of their actions throughout the environment as peer . From this, they establish their own characteristic.

Third, they show the independence and own responsibilities with their choices.

Three parts will go continuously as an obligatory . But that’s amazing for us to have chance to fulfil.

When I ‘m in 27 ,I realize I need to have more responsible with myself.Looking back to the journey of my life,I need to do that.My family went through a toughed time in the past when they didn’t have any child although they got married for 2 years or thereabouts.In a Vietnam village, everyone would discriminate and isolated to my family.Fortunately,they first got me (gave birth to me) in 1993.I was happy too because I grow up in a warmhearted family.I didn’t have to plant or harvest rice,corn even my family had a farm.That’s why I didn’t know to do anything. My scores of all subjects in schools were quite low because of no ambitious in my mind.I were very easy to get injury when I got blind at grade 5 and all friends joked me that I wore glasses as four eye dog.That was terrible !!!.When any one was the top ranking of my class ,my Mom would take that as an outstanding mirror to kick me ahead .But I hate that thoughts😞.When I failed the examination to enter public high school so I had to learn a private school.My Dad did’t like much and he had to suffer from other people in the village and especially my aunt and my uncle.They visited my house just to tell my parents that I ‘s idiot after that failure. Just that point made me think that I was a leftover and no way could treat me better.

I ‘m disoriented for my life after finished my high school program.I didn’t know what will I do for my future. Following most part of students in my school,I chose Vietnam national university of agriculture to study .Finally,I passed in Faculty of Agronomy and studied in Advanced crop science class which cooperate with UC David university of America after passed English test with the lowest point of class.I spent a lot of money for tuition fees but nothing improved my English .I shocked with studying pressure and my terrible English.I didn’t understand all lectures and what teacher said during 5 years even I joined in many courses of foreigners taught.I disappointed with myself.

But when my Dad told me that “Let’s find out your value ,I know you can do it”.Many days after, I seem to that advice as a motivation for me to move forward.Then I worked hard and got a chance to America.Now,I have a good job at an English center in my hometown.Through everything I realize that “never stop trying will help me to achive any thing in real life”.Don’t be afraid of ourself and spend our precious time to blame something .

Thanks for joining me!

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton